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The Friday Photo: hellfire and damnation

This big mess on the sofa is actually my boys (not the hairy one in the middle – that’s the dog).  They’re actually watching TV, believe it or not.  I love, love, love them.  Yes, they drive me crackers; my head often rings with guitar riffs, ridiculous arguments, towel-flicking battles at bathtime and manic giggling sessions.  But I tell you one thing: if anyone, anyone tried to hurt just one teeny hair on either of those little heads, I would fight.  I would fight, scratch, kick, punch, bite and yes, possibly – no, definitely – kill to protect them.

With this in mind, then, I read about the death of 17 month old Baby P with nothing short of horror.  I’ll let you decide whether you read the details as they are horrific, but basically this poor child was systematically tortured over many months by his mother’s partner and their lodger, while their mother not only stood by, but actually took part.  By the time they finally murdered him in August last year (despite more than 60 visits by Haringey County Council Social Services), the poor little scrap had suffered more than 50 horrific injuries, including a broken back. 

Terrible enough?  Or what about the delightful mother of little Shannon Matthews, who is currently being tried for staging the little girl’s kidnap in order to make £50,000.  The little girl was drugged and tied up for 24 days until Karen Matthews told police the address of the flat where she was being kept, information apparently given to her ‘by a clairvoyant’.

You know I don’t have much truck with religion, but if that bit about people burning for eternity in the fires of hell happens to be true, then I wish it, with every fibre of my being, for every parent that harms their child, or stands by and lets another person do it.  Here endeth the lesson.

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19 Responses to “The Friday Photo: hellfire and damnation”

  1. I can’t read that sort of thing. I end up depressed at the state of humanity for days. Poor mites. I was having a conversation yesterday where my boss was saying the death penalty was counter productive because it sends the message that it is OK to kill humans. I disagree, there is a very simple. People who do this kind of thing loose the right to be considered human, and are therefore fare game. I’m not especially religous but Christ I hope there is a heaven and that poor baby is getting the hugs and snuggles it deserves. And yes, I hope fervently that those responsible suffer for an eternity.

  2. Jennifer (Bert's No 1 Fan!) says:

    I couldn’t believe what I was reading yesterday in the Indo about Shannon Matthews being drugged etc. What is WRONG with her mother? I just can’t comprehend how someone could hurt a defenceless child.

    Part of me thinks that the death penalty is wrong. But when I consider how I’d feel if someone hurt my child/loved one I’d want to throw the switch myself and watch them fry.

    Great photo by the way. Judging by how Bert is cuddling in there I reckon if anyone tried to hurt the boys they’d have to get through Bert too!

  3. English Mum says:

    Thrifty: God yes, I’m definitely pro the death penalty. Reading the coverage, it seems none of the adults involved have any remorse, nor even show any sadness that the baby is dead. They should all be rounded up in a field and shot. Along with smokers. And people who eat turkey twizzlers.

    Jenn: I know. These poor kids – the one person in the world who they should be able to rely on to protect them – it’s all wrong.

    Oh yes, he loves them to bits. He even barked once when Hubby walked up the drive late at night. No, really, he did.

  4. jennynib says:

    You need to pass a test and pay lots of different taxes to own a car in this world but anybody over puberty can just pop a little person into this world. It doesn’t make sense.

    I don’t know about Hell but I hope that something rips the veil of booze, drugs, apathy and stupidity from the eyes of those criminals – and I absolutely count the social workers among these – and reveals to them the full visceral horror of what they have done.

    I had my son young and hadn’t the price of a bag of nappies to my name, so the first person who tries to make a case for young motherhood and poverty is gonna get nailed. Be warned. :)

    A neighbour of mine lost a wee baby two weeks to full term a fortnight ago. I saw her putting flowers in the churchyard when she should have been out buying ‘babys first’ Christmas decorations. I don’t know how heaven can bear to look at this world, sometimes.

  5. Townygirl says:

    Completely agree with you. An eye for an eye in cases like these. I’d give anything to have a child of my own . . . . as thrifty says they lose the right to be considered human.
    I love that photo, i bet they’d go mad if you changed channel hehehe

  6. Ali says:

    Good words well said sis puts my troubles into perspective,burn in hell mother f ——- !
    x

  7. English Mum says:

    Jen: how true. When you think of the amount of lovely, lovely people who have lost children or who can’t have their own, it makes you cry to think that evil people like that can knock one out. Grrrrr.

    Towny: Too right. How do people exist like this? With no morals and no empathy for another human being? It’s terrifying. Yup, they watch in all sorts of weird positions – how do you follow a programme upside down?! x

    Alg: Good point: we don’t realise how lucky we are. And yes, I hope they all do. xx

  8. Isitjustme? says:

    I’m right with you EM.
    There is nothing, absolutely nothing I wouldn’t do to keep my children from harm, any harm.
    They’re two of the scruffiest messiest dirtysock-hiding little gets you’ll ever meet and I love them dearly.
    I happened on the article about baby P and said goodbye to the lovely cup of coffee and toast I’d been enjoying.What a terrible little (mercifully short) life that poor mite endured.The mothers partner ‘trained’ him to place his forhead to the floor at a given signal?…there are some bad people out there.

  9. Susan says:

    I know too many solid-gold-wonderful people who are dying to be parents and can’t be, so when I read something like this I nearly go blind from the outrage and injustice of it. All I want to do now is pick up that poor lost baby and cuddle him forever.

    Instead of locking them up in a prison with their own room and television and all the other benefits, they should be let loose, I think, in a town square. Filled with parents.

    Bert’s a very patient ‘brother’ in the middle, meanwhile–wonderful photo!

  10. Dorothy says:

    Great photo of Bert! If he could talk he would be saying ‘look at me, i’m getting cuddles…and you’re not!’ :D

  11. SUSAN B says:

    I can only echo what everyone else has posted in regard to these horrors. I did not read the link – I would be gutted for G knows how long but the references made were enough to bring tears – my only addition would be that punishment should be in the form of like treatment for, perhaps, twice or thrice the time that little mite had to endure it! The death penalty is too kind for that sort!

  12. SUSAN B says:

    P.S. – Hubb’s b’day cake looks scrumptious . . . and those boys! How lucky you are and how lucky is the Bertmeister to have such an unqualified adoring family (and couch) to call his own!

  13. Jay says:

    I think as time goes on and I hear more and more of these horrific stories (and no, I don’t want the details, thank you very much. It would serve no purpose other than to unhinge me temporarily) I am more and more in favour of simply NOT letting people who have been convicted of crimes against children to breed. They should, at the very least, forfeit their right to reproduce.

    It is quite unbeleivable, that in these times, we’re still bending over backwards for the PC lobby, while allowing this kind of atrocity to be perpetrated. We KNOW that once this has happened, future children cannot be considered safe, so why allow them to be born? Aren’t there enough unwanted kids in the world yet?

    Gah.

    Makes me sick.

  14. English Mum says:

    Isit: Ugh. It said in one of the papers that the boyfriend was a total animal-torturing sicko and the mother hid his presence in the house to the authorities. Still, 60 visits and tens of trips to A&E and they didn’t suss he was being abused? God help us all x

    Susan: What a great idea. I’d second a bit of mob rule for monsters like that. And yes, he’s very patient when being cuddled mercilessly for hours, bless him!

    Dorothy: Welcome! Yes, he’s got that ‘oh, go on, then, cuddle me if you must’ look, hasn’t he!

    Susan: So right. Hubby couldn’t even read the details – it’s just too much. Apparently, one of the social workers fired off letters to loads of different members of parliament and all sorts – just in desperation that nothing was being done. I reckon heads should roll – a couple of those in charge need to know what happens when they cease to care… x

    AW and thanks – he repays us tenfold!! x

    Jay: Me too. Can you believe that this heinous, heinous woman is in prison and pregnant again? Just shockingly, terrifyingly wrong xx

  15. K8 says:

    Oh dear lord this post gives a serious smack to the gut after seeing such a happy photo!

    Brilliant contrast, hard to read.

  16. Tara says:

    is #1 about 6 feet tall or is that some kind of illusion?

  17. Moon says:

    I don’t think I will comment here….. sick to the stomach, and I pray that these people will find some humanity when the rot in the flames of hell

  18. English Mum says:

    K8: Yup – makes me appreciate them even more. Even the furry one x

    Tara: Nah, he’s always stretchificated though so he looks longer!

    Moon: Me too, my darling. x

  19. Baino says:

    EM I’m catching up and admit I haven’t read all the comments here but wouldn’t mind thinking that we’re all of one accord. I couldn’t even bare the thought of circumcising my precious baby he was so perfect how could I do anything to change him.We’ve had similar horror stories over here. Recently a family tried for starving their 11 year old. Can you imagine? I can’t. I squeeze, cuddle, schnoox and kiss mine at every opportunity. It annoys them, it irritates them I’m sure but deep down they know, big as they are, they’re loved and welcome and warm and safe . . poor little mites who don’t have that assurance.

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