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Shiny, happy and incredibly annoying

So yes, things are a little tough.  Hubby’s job is by no means certain in the current economic climate, and it’s a worry, what with C… oops, nearly said the C-word again… what with a rather expensive time of year coming up.  And now Hubby’s car has decided to conk out, and my jeep’s making weird noises.  Don’t they say things come in threes?  I wonder what’s next.

So sod it, I say to Hubby, we’re all healthy, nobody died.  We have a roof over our heads, two happy, healthy children, a big mad family, lovely friends, a big cuddly stupid dog, and have settled into a lovely community.  For some reason, my unbridled optimism really annoys him.  ‘So if we end up losing our house and living in a tent you’ll still be this perky will you?’ he asks, somewhat unfairly.  ‘Well, at least we’ll have each other… and if we’re all in a tent together, we can pretend we’re camping – it’ll be an adventure’.  Hubby snorts in a rather derisive manner and goes off to do something manly in the garage.

This morning, then, #2 comes down for his breakfast.  I make him a hot chocolate with extra marshmallows, and serve him a big chunk of homemade brownie (don’t worry, there’s a stealthy portion of dates in there – shhhh).  ‘I love you, Mum’, he says, ‘you’re always so smiley and happy’.  ‘That’s funny’, says I, ‘it annoys the pants off your father’.

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23 Responses to “Shiny, happy and incredibly annoying”

  1. Susan says:

    Oh poor husband. Being worried has turned him into a Poop. It happens to men for some reason.

    We went through a jobless rough spot some years ago, and after the initial panic, social welfare stepped in to give us more than we’d earned at work (weird…). Since then Himself has worked for years in a factory, and in this economy, we’re just waiting for that axe to fall, any day. But, we’re not the sort to worry, so if it falls, it falls.

    All the more incentive (and time!) to write MEGA-BLOCKBUSTING bestselling novels and become richer than our wildest dreams!! (sigh) if only… Anyhow, you stay happy. He might need that later.

    Our car broke too, and we’re down to the Land Rover for all of us to share. Is it an epidemic?

  2. Taffy's Mum says:

    Shhhh – don’t mention cars! My MOT is due next month and I am dreading the cost of a service especially with the c-word coming, my nan, sister and neice also have birthdays in the next 3 weeks – so it is spend spend spend. OH has it tougher as he has his dads and my birthdays on top of Christmas – hope he has started saving already :P

  3. Balance Mrs, ying and yang. Don’t want everyone in the house worrying do you? Tell him the worrying is his job, good mood spreading is your job. nuff said. And sure you’ll be able to feed yourselves from the garden no? Get some meat bunnies in stock for protein, and Bert exercise :-)

    Our motors are behaving, but the radio in the renault is banjaxed for some reason. And I’m not brining it to S****f**d Renault as they are a bunch of RIP OFF MERCHANTS. Now, my sister in law, her timing belt went last week (I told her to replace it 3 years ago), necessitating an engine rebuild, that’s expensive.

  4. Kate says:

    I am afraid worrying doesn’t make it better so there is little point and it gives you wrinkles – therefore it makes good common sense to be cheerful! Trouble is a lot of men don’t have common sense! Give him a big hug!!!

  5. English Mum says:

    Susan: ‘Tis all true… we reckon our two cars confer in the driveway – taking turns deciding who’s going to conk out next. Meh, I’m naturally cheerful. The blockbuster may yet defeat my optimism though! x

  6. English Mum says:

    TM: Uh oh, sounds expensive. Why do these things always happen all at the same time, that’s what I want to know.

    Thrifty: Absolutely, I am the official ray of sunshine. It’s my job. I’m with you on main dealers. The dealer that originally worked on our jeep did a terrible job and then denied that the problem they’d made worse was anything to do with them. We ended up paying out a ton of money and getting a worse car back as a result.

    Kate: How true. Hugs are being dispensed. I can’t help being perky, it’s just me I’m afraid!

  7. Moon says:

    Well, I am with hubby on this one…. I know you should worry, control the controllables, but I worry about those kinda of things… what if’s … most of the time they never come true, and you end up wasting so much time stressing over things that never happen …. oh for crystal balls, sorry, a crystal ball !

  8. Jennifer (Bert's No 1 Fan!) says:

    Hot chocolate and brownie for breakfast? Adopt me? Please??!!

    Anyhoo. I can identify with this as I am also that shiny/happy/annoying person in my family. If I’m noisy (which yeah, ok, is most of the time) they tell me to quiet down. If I’m quiet they ask me what’s wrong. You can’t bloody win!!

    Aw #2 what a little dote. Bless.

  9. English Mum says:

    Moon: Hmmm, maybe it’s a man thing – the pressure of being the ‘provider’, etc. Crystal balls eh? Ooh, painful!x

  10. Emma says:

    I am quite optimistic about the economy downturn myself…we are already poor so we couldn’t afford to have debt. Unlike my friends who have bought 2 vehicles along with a trailer and added it on to their mortgage we have nothing to lose. I’m quite okay with this, for once in my life.

  11. Emma says:

    And the breakfast sounds yummy!

  12. English Mum says:

    Emma: Welcome! Sorry, you got caught in my spam filter. Yup, there’s a lot to be said for not having lots of ‘stuff’. Luckily, Hubby is quite sensible with money. I, on the other hand, can’t keep cash in my purse for love nor money. I’m the crap, broke and happy one!

    Jenn: You’re always welcome to join us for brownies! I know, bless his little socks – he doesn’t say much, but when he does it really counts! x

  13. Sandra in Maryland says:

    That’s exactly why I love your blog, Mrs. Shiny Happy – because you are like that!

  14. English Mum says:

    Sandra: Bless you, my darling (cheque’s in the post). Mwah xx

  15. Baino says:

    Ah it’s a worry. I’m a single so I’m the happy shiny worry wort! I have so much debt its not funny! Still no point crying over spilt milk.

  16. English Mum says:

    Baino: A girl after my own heart. A friend of mine said today ‘sure, we could all be dead tomorrow’. She has a point 8O

  17. Sandra in Maryland says:

    Let’s hope it doesn’t bounce!

  18. Sorry to read you’re in a bit of a pickle, EM.. especially with ‘C’ coming up. Still, good to know you can smile and talk about it. Better out, than in… sending good wishes. :)

  19. Megan says:

    Like Baino it’s just me so I am shiny happy and worried mopey, turn and turn about. Poor offspring never knows which one he’s going to get. Sometimes it just depends on the traffic…

  20. English Mum says:

    Sandra: that made me laugh! x

    Aussie: Thanks, sweetie. Meh, we’ll survive. An awful lot of people in Ireland are finding themselves unemployed at the moment, so we’re lucky at the moment. I can always sell the children for cash! x

    Megan: Aw bless. I’m generally quite happy, but definitely have my moments when they all run for cover! x

  21. I keep threatening to send #2 up chimneys to keep us in petrol….they don’t know they’re born!!

    Listen, if the worst happens, there are an awful lot of unsold houses and office blocks….are we too old to squat do you think?

  22. English Mum says:

    Queeny: Ooh dear, I’d be a terrible squatter, I’m far too precious! Too right, my #2′s definitely small enough for chimneys!

  23. K8 says:

    Yep, my fella’s starting to get those edgy ticks too – he gets so frustrated at his inability to bring in money that he feels he’s failing as a father. The ironic part is he takes it out on us!

    Lucky we’re smartarses and know his game :) I think the recession might be good for us! It’ll bring our materialsitic ways down a peg or two.

    But, as with everything else it’ll get worse before it gets better. *shudder*

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