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‘Fixed Penalty Notices’ for taking children out of school in term time.

This morning, we had a letter from the school quoting Regulation 7 of The Education Regulations 2006 Act  (it states that schools should only grant leave of absence during termtime if the school ‘considers that leave of absence should be granted due to the exceptional circumstances relating to the application ’).

The Governors, the letter continues,  have therefore decided that they will not grant leave of absence for any of the following reasons:

  • Availability of cheap holidays
  • Availability of the desired accommodation
  • Poor weather experienced in school holiday periods
  • Overlap with the beginning or end of term
  • Any other reason not deemed to be ‘exceptional’.
The letter goes on to state that any holiday taken without the authorisation of the school will now be subject to a ‘fixed penalty notice’ which means you may be fined by the Education Welfare Service.

Now yes, I realise that children benefit from being in school and getting on with their lessons, and I can see fors and againsts for only taking kids out of schools during holidays – we won’t, for instance, be taking #1 out of school as he’s currently in his GCSE years – but there are several points that I think schools are missing:

1.  While holiday companies continue to inflate the cost of their products during school holidays, should we be forced to spend more money in order to have time as a family?

2. I am not anti-education in any way.  My kids have to be dying before they’re off sick, and I always arrange dentists/doctors appointments after school, but can’t holidays be educational too?  Can’t holidays be life-enriching and give children new and different experiences?  Can’t visiting other countries and experiencing other cultures be part of their all-round education and not frowned upon?

3.  I hate to sound like an old fart, but I was taken out of school for my holidays for years and years.  My education went perfectly well.  I got decent exam results and didn’t turn out to be a total brain donor.  Should taking our children out of school really warrant a fine?

What do you think?
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57 Responses to “‘Fixed Penalty Notices’ for taking children out of school in term time.”

  1. Becky says:

    I can’t afford to take my children on holiday whether its term time or not ;-)

    I do get annoyed with one mum at my DD’s school who seems to be forever taking her son out in term time..

    • English Mum says:

      Hi Becky – I know the feeling! I wonder if there should be some kind of limit so people don’t take the mickey – maybe 2 weeks per year or something?

  2. Actually, I’m a school governor. Some of my colleagues were muttering darkly about our ‘power’ to slap fines on parents taking their children out of school for holidays.

    I’m delighted to announce that our forever sensible and down to earth Headmistress disagreed completely. As she put it “our school is situated in an area of financial deprevation. Many children would not be able to go on holiday at all if their parents were forced to pay peak prices. A holiday is good for the children and even the most sunbed based, raucous holiday in Benidorm has educational and cultural benefits. What IS a problem is when parents of children who are clearly not doing well in school choose to take their offspring out of school for two weeks at critical times. We always ask that parents do not do this, but sadly there will always be apathetic parents who do not work in conjunction with the school. Generally though, we should be supporting the parents – holidays are good for both the children, the parents and domestic life in general.”

    Cx
    http://www.charlotte-castle.blogspot.com

    • English Mum says:

      Hi Charlotte – thanks so much for taking the time to comment. What an amazing Headmistress you have!

      I totally concur – holidays have so many benefits and schools should be supportive, where the parents are acting sensibly, as you say x

  3. Helen Conway says:

    I completely agree that travel can be educational( as long as it is travel and not sea sun and sunmaid/sangria for a fortnight). Trips we went on as children (in school holiday time) have taught me priceless lessons Children miss school for chicken pox and catch up just fine. If the parents have the money children undoubtably benefits from travel. But the : it costs too much in holiday time argument? Doesn’t wash with me. There is no right to have a cheap holiday just because you are a family. Can’t afford to go abroad in the summer? Children can get all that ‘travel’ education you seek with cultural days out locally. Or seek cheaper accommodation – the holidays I refered to above were in a caravan. Teachers with no kids have to pay that extra too and they don’t get to get out in term time. The cost is not ‘inflated’ it is a response to demand which is a normal market force. You will find that if you want your child to travel and get cultural experiences it is much cheaper to do so in February half term than in the last two weeks of the summer term for example. Fewer crowds too, Less sun I admit but then sun is not all that educational is it?!

    • English Mum says:

      Hi Helen, all good points. I heard that Easter was the most expensive time – would be interesting to hear when the cheapest is too x

    • Working Mum says:

      Thanks, Helen, for pointing out that teachers pay the top prices for peak times. it is a case of supply and demand. Seventeen years I’ve only ever looked at the most expensive prices in the brochures!

    • no.. it isnt a god given right for families to have cheaper holidays! but speaking as a mum of 2 who havent had a family holiday in 5years, the option to have would be nice without being treated like some kind of criminal!!
      #just saying#

      • English Mum says:

        Absolutely. And I don’t agree with Helen when she says ‘children can get all that ‘travel’ education you seek with cultural days out locally.’ Is she seriously suggesting we shouldn’t aim to take our children abroad? Ridiculous. (I would hazard a guess that Helen isn’t a parent) x

  4. Baino says:

    Absolute dictatorial bullshit. I took mine out of school to experience Melanesian culture in Fiji and to Europe, they learned more by keeping a travel journal and mixing with other cultures than they’d ever learn in the three weeks of school that they missed. Ridiculous. Both now have degrees and a wider view of the world.

  5. This is something that seems to have really hotted up in the last few years, as I never really had a huge problem with any of mine (youngest now 16). We’re parents, we know education is important, and I find it really patronising of schools to assume we are SO stupid to NOT realise this! Family time, away, at an affordable price, is also hugely important. I may rock the boat here. Lie! Tell the school/s they’re sick.

    • English Mum says:

      What a great point – you cannot underestimate the benefit of life experience with their families – let’s face it, how many kids get time with both mum and dad any other time apart from holidays?

  6. Hi Hun.
    I agree with you completely!
    Another point is that with alot of schools If your face fits the head will give permission, if it doesn’t they wont!! one rule for one one rule for amother! A family I know are away every school holiday thats 13weeks of the year, and they are always overlapping, but because they are up the heads arse and they have plenty of money and the dad was head of goveners.. they get their own way!!! and yet those that need a well earned once a year family holiday do not get the permision!!!

    Is this fine enforceable?
    what I mean is, if you dont pay it will you go to prison? would that mean you going to court 1st?
    would it be county court or criminal court?
    I tell you one thing if everybody who refuses to pay the fine and cloggs up the already busy courts… the judges will soon get very tired of the situation and go in favour of us the parents!!
    also would the courts want to take perfectly good parents away from their children for a prison term!!!
    plus their is the power of the media, no school wants to be reflected in a bad light in newspapers etc…. so that would be my 1st point of call… get it in print!!!
    I think its time for parents to fight back!!
    MAKES MY BLOOD BOIL!!!!

    • English Mum says:

      Good question – it says ‘may’ be fined…

      All very good points. I can imagine that there are some parents who go too far and do damage their children’s education by taking them out for vast tranches of time, but look at lovely Wallop – she’s taking her kids on the adventure of a lifetime for a year – how can that not benefit them immeasurably? Madness.

  7. jennynib says:

    What twaddle!

    Those schools must be picture-pristine-perfect with no absenteeism/tardiness/poor grades/discipline issues if this is what incenses the Principal!

    Holiday and be Damned, Missus! X

  8. Nixi says:

    My son is in his first year of school and in May we took him out for a week to go on holiday. If we hadn’t gone then we would not have had a holiday this year. Whilst away we had a trip on a steam train, built sand castles on the beach, paddled in the sea, searched in rock pools, went on an old galley ship, and lots more. All of which I think added tot he richness of life for my children, they may not have been in a classroom but they were definitely learning! Saying that I wouldn’t take either of them out of school in crucial years, as that I believe is wrong. The majority of parents are sensible people who understand the value of education – we should be allowed to govern our own lives and make our own decisions as to what is best for our children.

  9. jfb57 says:

    Good debate here! The important word is ‘may’ on the FPN & in my expereince it is the parents as described by Charlotte above that they are really aimed at.
    Schools have to try to encourage all parents to see the benefits of enducation. Those of you who have commented about the benefits of travel are those parents who share their childrens school days with them & in those situations, there is no problem. However, it is when children are taken out to buy shoes or because it is their birthday that the problem arises. Unfortunately, there can’t be two sets of rules hence the word ‘may’. If your child’s attendance was in the low 80%, I’m sure as head I’d say no.

    • English Mum says:

      Ah lovely Julia – I was hoping that you’d comment! As ever, the voice of reason. I agree that the system relies on parents to be sensible, and I agree that fines could work where there are persistent offenders too. I do see the ‘may’ as more of a threat than a promise, as you say x

  10. Working Mum says:

    As a teacher who has to pay top prices for holidays during school holidays myself, and cope with “catching up” pupils who have missed lessons for holidays I can see both sides!

    Primarily I disagree with the fines. I think the prices of holidays in school holidays are a case of supply and demand, but that does put some holidays out of some families’ reach, so I can understand taking pupils out of school to experience other cultures and have some quality family time. I think parents should be allowed to make that choice for their children and most parents would be sensible about it, only a small minority would cause their children to miss more than a couple of weeks school a year. Again, it is the Nanny state dictating to the masses for the misdemeanors of the few!

    All I ask is that parents understand that their child will have missed some of their education, are happy to accept worksheets and notes I have kept for them so that they don’t have any gaps in their books and that they don’t expect me to give up my lunchtimes and hold after school sessions to teach their children the lessons they have missed whilst on holiday. (I do, of course, give my time freely when pupils have been off ill.)

    And could teachers be allowed to take time off in term time to get cheaper holidays, please?! :)

    • English Mum says:

      Haha I’d vote yes to the teachers getting holidays too :)

      Again, well reasoned and intelligent – surely this would be a good middle ground – some dialogue between school and home to agree catching up and holiday journals, etc x

  11. Jazzygal says:

    Hi there English Mum! Oh, you are speaking my language! My son is 10 and is on the Autistic Spectrum (mild and is attending mainstream school.) We’ve always taken him out of school for holidays because when he was younger it was better for him. Less crowded and not so hot. I t has been fantastic for him…in fact the 2 weeks of sun and sand was a lesson in social skills alone as he navigated the pool and playgrounds:-) Trips to theme parks were lessons in “Waiting”. Etc; etc. All kids benefit from that. Plus The term from Easter to the end of June is a very long one..they need a break.

    Things are much easier now so we don’t really have to go at that time of year any more. We usually go in May and time it around the June Bank Holiday when there are extra days off.

    This year I did feel a bit guilty but then I noticed something when he went back to school….he was much happier and less stressed. HE NEEDED the break and benefited hugely from it!

    I think what your schools are proposing are very harsh…particularly in these recessionary times. Holidays can be quality family time and this shouldn’t be under-estimated. Here in Ireland (Primary school)they allow 20 days absence in the year (to cover illnesses!) and they did plead with us not to take them out of school! But…if you time it right it can work very well! x Jazzy

    • English Mum says:

      Hello my lovely. And right there is another perfect reason that there should be some flexibility! What a great comment, thanks for stopping by x

  12. Hmmm, well I think I may have to disagree with a lot of people here. If it is a one off, once in a lifetime thing, then absolutely – life is short. But, generally speaking, that is what the summer holidays are for – you get 6 – 8 weeks off, go then. And don’t give me this crap about it being more expensive – of course it is. But that is the price of having kids. I don’t have any kids, but I am forced to pay the higher prices because both Mr. DBM and I are in education. We can’t just cut out in the middle of term time to take a “cheap” holiday. Besides, if you get a good education, you will get a good job and be able to afford the more expensive rates. Also, there are such things as cheap holidays. Growing up, I never went to Spain, or Bali, or Australia etc etc. We went to the Lake District and stayed in a caravan. We went to Ireland and stayed in a tent. We got wet a lot, we whinged a lot, but do you know what, those were the best holidays I ever had and I thank my Mum and Dad for always making sure we got our two weeks holiday every summer, even if it was just to Westward Ho! Education is important. Holidays are important. Anybody that knows me knows that I love to travel. that is what I do, but I have to fit it in aorund my job and my husband’s job. That is the responsibility of life. We can’t always do what we want to do when we want. Having said all that, I would support a parent who wanted to take their child out of school for a once in a lifetime travel experience, but not every year for a cheap holiday to the Costa Brava.

    • English Mum says:

      Well, you know I’m never going to agree with you Bugs! As you know, Hubby can’t take time off in the summer as it’s his busiest time, so if we were to adhere to your rules my children would never spend time with their Dad (whether it be Goa or Ireland or Skegness), something I, and they, would be devastated about.

      Furthermore, a good education isn’t reliant on being there for every single week. As someone said above, plenty of kids have time off sick and they’re none of them brain damaged because of it. It’s about great teachers, supportive parents, and so much more.

      And what’s wrong with taking your child out for a cheap holiday to the Costa Brava? If that’s all you can afford, and can only do it during school time, well that’s fine – children benefit from all sorts of experiences. And family time is important in their development as well as school time. I’m a firm believer in building memories – as your holidays in Ireland and The Lake District prove.

      Every holiday is different, every family is different (whether childless or no) and everyone deserves time together. It’s a case of flexibility and a reliance on everyone to be sensible.

      • I agree, all families are different. I also agree that all families should have time together – that is probably more important than anything else, and you have to do it when you can, since your children grow up and since you never know when someone might not be there anymore. The main problem is people that abuse the system, not the ones that are sensible. Pulling your kids out of school every year for the cheap holidy in Costa Brava, or wherever, just because it is cheap, to me is not a good reason. You don’t have to go abroad to spend quality time with your family. So, the cost issue shouldn’t be the reason. That is not to say that there are not good reasons – having the whole family together is a good reason.

      • same here work commitments mean that I cant always go away in school holidays!!

        But I have to disagree with the above comment about caravan holidays! after pricing them up.. a holiday in a caravan in peak season is a good £200 plus on top, and that was in this country.
        yes in the good old days when I was a kid it was cheaper !!! not anymore!!
        Some of us will never be able to afford a once in a life time trip, costa brava and the like might be the only type for us!
        shouldnt look down noses at these types of holidays, as children thrive of positive environments.. and a well deserved break in the sun where families can relax together can be just the ticket!!
        Needless to say after not having a family holiday for 5 years, me and my boys are going camping week after next, all the budget of a single parent, (whose ex has left in a finacial mess) will allow!

        • English Mum says:

          And I bet they’ll have a wonderful time. And that’s the crux – we can quibble about timings and destinations, but children need quality time with parents and sometimes that needs to be during the school term. x

          • I know a lovely Irish family she has 6 children, (3 sets of twins.. bless her!!)

            she didnt get permission from the head, (You know the same head that gives the other family all the permission they need!)

            the ironic thing is the family who are always overlapping their holidays can afford the fines, the lovely Irish family cant!!

            but you know what they ignored the head took the kids out for the week, they paid the fine because it still worked out cheaper than going in peak season!!

  13. TheGlutton says:

    I took my son out of school for last 7 days of term to go on holiday. He’s 9 and has 2 years left of primary so he isn’t in danger of failing exams. He works hard, is hardly ever absent for illness and had a great end of year report so I’m not worried. At the end of the day it is up to the child and parents to make sure the child catches up on anything missed – the class won’t suffer for it. In Ireland the school is obliged to report parents/guardians of a child that is absent for 20+ days in any school year – I think it is a more fair way of dealing with it so people aren’t taking the piss.

    Our school also closes at a moments notice for teachers meetings/training etc despite the fact that teachers have such long periods out of the classroom.

    The difference in ferry crossing for our holiday taken at last 2 weeks in June as opposed to first week in July was €500 – I am sure the accommodation would have been something similar. That is a lot of money to most families now and can make the difference between going on holiday or not.

  14. Julie says:

    My folks were farmers and when I was young school holidays always tied in with the farms busy periods ( why schools had holidays set at those times when the kids helped bring in the harvest), therefore if we went away it was early May past the lambing season, before the hay making season and well before harvest time. Farming families would never take holidays in the summer hols, so when are they meant to take time out?

    1) Easter – Still looking after youn animals so risky.
    2) May half term – Hay and Silage time
    3) Christmas – who would look after the farm as staff would be taking time off to be with their families
    4) Well that leaves feb and oct half term hols.

    • English Mum says:

      Hi Julie – thanks for taking the time to comment. Great point that lots of families have diverse reasons and it’s not always just about cost x

  15. Erica says:

    To be treated like a petty criminal is just ridiculous.

    My husband has set non-negotiable holidays that fall outwith school holidays more often than not. Are we to forgo family holdays for the next fifteen years?

    I’m more than happy to debate the cultural benefits of a holiday and would even be happy to discuss the least disruptive times in which to take the holiday. I’m more than happy to do extra work in advance and help with the catching up when we get back – after all the teacher shouldn’t have to pay the price!

    In short, a bit of adult negotiation could avoid such a situation where a fine is necessary, surely?

    • English Mum says:

      Exactly Erica. There are so many genuine reasons for having to take children out of school – and cost isn’t always even the issue. As you say, a bit of sensible negotiation is surely all that’s needed.

  16. Loops says:

    I concur with an earlier comment – I can’t afford a holiday term time or holidays! I used to take my son to Egypt (if Sharm el Sheigh counts as Egypt) for a week when he was at primary but his high school has zero tolerance. That was in the days before I became a single parent and could afford it.

    I can’t see any reason for disallowing term holiday as long as there is good attendance otherwise and it’s not a SATS/exam year. And not necessarily for ‘educational’ holidays. A week swimming and making new friends, maybe learning a few foreign phrases, can also be seen as educational.

    • English Mum says:

      Hey Loops – I totally agree – as I said above, I think a week ‘en famille’ is tremendously beneficial to children. Again, I think the Irish system where there are 20 days ‘leeway’ makes perfect sense. This weedles out those who inevitably take the p*ss x

  17. Loops says:

    Oh and that twaddle about getting a good education means you will get a well paid job? There speaks a person in a well paid job who has no idea about what some of the rest of earn despite being well educated

    • English Mum says:

      Yes and as I said, missing a couple of weeks doesn’t ruin an education…

    • Erm – sorry, I guess you don’t know me well enough to detect a splash of tongue-in-cheek sarcasm. Although, there is definitely some truth in what I said. Do I have a well paying job? Yes, as a matter of a fact I do. And why do I have a well paying job? Because I worked damned hard at school and at university. You can get a great paying job without any education and you can have all the education in the world and still not get a good job. These are the extremes. But we all know that the more education you have, the better you will get paid – in general. And that is not twaddle. That is fact.

      • English Mum says:

        Ah, but two weeks every year won’t make any difference!!

        And yes, I knew you were playing devil’s advocate, you bugger.

        • ermm I passed all my exams, came from a tight family unit (3 kids, we all did well in school)..we went on holidays in this country sometimes in term time most of the time in the hols!
          I am a Childminder now… originally started when my eldest was a baby (now 13)
          did u know that childminders now have to be qualified ICP DCP etc NVQ3 and by 2012 we have to either be doing a degree or have obtained one! keep in mind that the EYFS is from birth till end of reception class in primary school…but we dont get the same pay as a primary school teacher!!!
          Yes I love my job… but the pay doesnt reflect the work that goes into it!!
          Also keep in mind if we all went for high paid jobs …. there would be no one around to look after the kids so you and yours can go have your high paid jobs!
          Shop workers are not high paid, doesn’t mean they are uneducated, if they didnt do the job where would u get your groceries?
          what Im saying there is a place and purpose for most people, we all rub along together most of the time to the benefit of others!!
          schools need to start treating parents with more respect (as do others judging by some of the comments!!!), most of us work hard and long hours to provide for our own families…
          My children are mine… they are my responsibility. they rarely have time off school as education is important in this house… but so is good quality time you experience in during a family holiday. If I want to take them on holiday in term time I bloody will!

  18. Townygirl says:

    I agree with you. x

  19. I think children can learn so much from travelling, it’s highly educational. I got a similar letter (although not quite so harsh) from the school governors when I applied for some holiday time two years ago. It was only four days in total. My father was one of the governors who sent the letter yet he was the one who paid for the holiday. It was just a standard letter although I have to admit I did take offence.

  20. jabblog uk says:

    Have the rules changed in the last few years? It used to be the case that parents could take their children out of school for a maximum of two weeks (I think) – if they chose to take longer their children would be registered as ‘absent without notice’ aka AWOL! LOL!! In my class there were two friends whose families regularly took more than the allowed time. One child was very bright and didn’t suffer – her friend needed all the time she could get and more and her progress was adversely affected. In another school, one child missed the equivalent of two terms through ‘illness’ and odd days out – she couldn’t afford the time out either.
    I think imposing fines is absolutely ridiculous – sign of weak management! Blow ‘market forces’ – it’s time the travel industry woke up and realised it would get more business if prices didn’t peak and trough. Just my thoughts – sorry to bang on so:-)

    • English Mum says:

      I thought it used to be two weeks as well. In fact, Liz (Jarvis) wrote an article about it on Ready For Ten and she definitely stated that the Government recommendation is ten days…

  21. Wow excellent debate here! Personally I think it’s the nanny state gone mad yet again. Assuming parents know nothing and rules need to be enforced in order to keep them in check. I had no idea when I started having kids that I would suddenly fall under the category of “completely thick”. Holidays with family is what you take with you through your life. I still remember mine now and always loved those few weeks where it was just us being us. However what I learned in primary school? Nadda! We have had a mixture of holidays during and out of school breaks. And it all comes down to cost (and the odd US wedding!). Also it feels like the Govt (and some parents) just take education far too seriously in the early years. As if primary school is the first step on the path to Cambridge/Oxford. And if they don’t get it right there then forget it. It gets so intense for them sometimes. Crazy. Save the pressure, the stress, the angst until they hit GCSE’s! Believe me there is plenty to go around then. It’s not that I don’t believe education is important but let’s not make it their whole lives.

  22. Emma says:

    Oh I completely agree!!! Chick doesn’t have any time off school and she too has to be extremely ill for me to let her have a day off! Luckily our Head Teacher is of the view that holidays are educational and she even let me take Chick out for a month when we went to Australia without any fuss!!! As usual some common sense would help with these things!!!!

  23. Tara says:

    One word: Summerhill.

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