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To Ireland, with love.

English Towers in the snow (c) Englishmum.com

So that’s it, then.  Packing has commenced, the chickens have been collected in a trailer and carted off to their new home,  and in a very short time we shall land back on terra firma in the good old Kingdom of United.

I have mixed feelings, frankly.  When we first moved to Dublin I was miserable.  I missed my friends, my family, the familiarity of having lived in a place your whole life; bumping into people you know in Tesco (frankly, being able to even go to Tesco without an hour’s round trip).  It was rotten.  The children hated their new school (#1 was the only native English speaker in his class), everything was alien, everything shut for lunch, or on a Monday, or on a Wednesday or had to be requested in writing, and I lasted about 6 weeks before I fled home, leaving poor Hubby blinking in a bewildered fashion in a big empty Irish house.

Still, we made it back.  And with a new school for the boys, a new dog (the wonderful and much missed Becks), a new friend in Jenny and a new blog to take up my time (EnglishMuminIreland.blogs.ie – where it all began), I started to settle in.  The Irish are a wonderful breed: open, friendly, always up for a laugh, never too busy to help…  With Hubby’s new job we found ourselves here in Cavan and from the moment we walked over the threshold of English Towers, we felt at home.  With the lovely C next door already terminally ill when we arrived, a sad by-product of being able to help in small ways like minding children or fetching medicine from the chemist was that we (selfishly) felt needed and wanted very quickly.  We made friends with The Lovelies, the Galway Cs and Poppy’s Mum and her family (if you’re new here, check out ‘All about me’ at the top of the screen for more info), all via D, who was unceasingly generous with both his time and his friends, and have felt happily and contendedly as though we were home for the past two years.  D now has a new, lovely lady in his life.  The children are delighted and so are we.  We wish them all the love and happiness that they so deserve.

But things change.  The Recession came and bit us on the bum and it’s time to move on again.  I’ll miss the beautiful countryside, the wonderful people and the laid back lifestyle, but the hustle and bustle of town life is calling me back too.  Living in this huge house with the dog and the chickens and the lovely garden has been a massive adventure for us all.  The children have made lifelong friends, received a fantastic education and enjoyed some amazing life experiences.  They have benefitted immeasurably from their time here, as have the Hubby and I.  We’ve been lucky enough to share this fantastic place with our friends and family when they came over for our wedding blessing and have even been welcomed into the new community of the church by the kind and gentle Revd Craig - something I never would have imagined in a million years.  I know we’ll return so much more open to new experiences, and with a fresh appreciation for all the people and places that we’ve missed over the last four years.

Onwards and upwards, then.  Pass the bubble wrap.  Goodbye Emerald Isle.  It’s been a blast.

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130 Responses to “To Ireland, with love.”

  1. sue_bailey says:

    Good luck in your new life – wherever it is. Be as happy as you’ve been in Ireland.

  2. Mary says:

    I’m sure you will be very happy where ever you end up, but in a peculiar and irrational way I’m going to miss you, even though I live in Wales!
    I hope this blog will continue !

  3. Jennysnail says:

    I feel very sad that you have to leave Ireland and I don’t even know you only read your blog! Good luck in your new home and I hope you carry on blogging.

  4. Seamus says:

    Mixed feelings for sure, hope the move goes well, all the best to you and yours.

  5. moon says:

    Well, I have tears for you x I know exactly what it is like to be forced to move on rather than chose to. I guess you have to look forward, and of course realise you have been able to have a wonderful time, but it is hard … Onwards I guess, and who knows what is around the corner .. but I understand x

    • English Mum says:

      Thanks Moon, I know you do. If I could have chosen, obviously I would have stayed put, but yes, we’ll take what life throws at us and find a new English Towers eh? xx

  6. Jeremy Gould says:

    So sad you’re going back. Been enjoying your blog for a while and it helped when we finally moved from England to Kerry about a year ago. Hope its the right move, I’m staying here for the forseeable.

  7. RRR says:

    I too am sorry to see you go I have received as much as I have been privledged to give. I hope in time you will dance again! God’s blessing on you all. RRR

  8. Seamus says:

    Apologies for not joining in on the blog earlier, hope you keep it going, will chat more with you on Twitter too. xo

  9. toria says:

    awwww! don’t know what to say!

    …. except you can share my chickens…. :)

  10. Seamus says:

    Well, thanks [blush] .. guess you’re moving soon, before Christmas, I suppose you’d like one more in Ireland, but then perhaps it will help having Christmas in the new home. I have never been Ireland for Christmas week, hope I can experience that some year.

    • English Mum says:

      Yes, it’s a shame, moving before Christmas. I’d love to spend a Christmas in Dublin one year, it’s a great place for celebrating (and I don’t mean drunken hen party type celebrating!).

  11. Thriftcriminal says:

    Keep in touch Mrs.

  12. It seems such a shame that you are having to move now – you seemed so settled and content. Still, let’s look on the bright side, if you are home for Christmas then we can get together for a wee drink and a big reminisce, since Mr. DBM and I will be home for the holidays. There now, doesn’t that make things so much better!?!

  13. Seamus says:

    Jeremy is right, you’ll have to get you and your family to the kingdom of Kerry,
    Inch strand, Conor’s pass and Slea Head to mention just a few spots, on the Dingle Peninsula :)

  14. Martin says:

    Well EM, it is always sad to move away but, be advised, new ventures are extremely stimulating-even in one’s sixties.
    (I speak from experience, from my 13th home in my third country, and never happier).
    Good luck and go for it.
    (And keep up the blog for F***s sake)

    • English Mum says:

      Hey Martin. You’re a good example: I pop in regularly to your blog, and your happiness oozes from the very pixels of it! Oh yes, I’ll keep on keeping up. As it were :o )

  15. Baino says:

    Oh so sorry it’s come to this for you but being together is the most important thing. And you’re close enough for frequent visits. Such a shame to have to leave your lovely home. Good luck I don’t envy the move or re-settling the kids, it’s a tough age for them to be moved around.

    • English Mum says:

      Do you know, Baino, you’re dead right, being together IS the most important thing. And it took my beloved Cousin to point it out to me too. I was gearing up for living in two different countries, but Moon wrote and said that being together as a family is what’s important. The kids are lucky that they’re moving back to the same area and already have friends there, but it’ll be tough for them all the same. They’re well up for the challenge though, bless them, although they’re less keen on the packing… :lol:

  16. I’ll put the kettle on . . .

  17. Here’s to appreciating the past and revelling in what’s to come.

    x

  18. Val says:

    Oh my goodness I’m really shocked.
    Very best of luck to you all xxx

  19. Taffy's Mum says:

    I have loved reading about your experiences and seeing Ireland through your eyes. It is definately a place I have marked to visit for the future thanks to your blog.

    I am sorry for all your new found friends that you will be leaving behind, but at least there are opportunities for a return visit and maybe for them to visit you :D
    Talking of visits, any time you are south of the Thames let me know and maybe you can get to meet Taffy, Wills and myself. Good luck with everything and look forward to ‘reading you’ (as my french friend says) from this side of the Irish sea xx

    • English Mum says:

      OMG, I’d LOVE to meet them in person! I’m glad you’ve enjoyed our time here as much as we have. Oh yes, I’m sure we’ll keep in touch with everyone – potential blog fodder there in a return visit, I’m sure! x

  20. aoife mc says:

    Best of luck where ever your travels take you and your family. Thanks so much for letting us in on your lovely time in Cavan, was always so fun to read.

    So…are you taking the chickens with you?? I haven’t read all the above comments as I was too eager to wish you well! So apologies if you’ve already talked about the chicks.

    Good luck anyway – no doubt you’ll be keeping up the blog, of course. So it’s not goodbye, it’s see you later, somewhere on the internet :)

    • English Mum says:

      Hey Aoife! The chickens have actually gone to the Mum of a friend, so they’ll be well looked after. I had to give little Elvis a big extra cuddle goodbye – sentimental fool that I am!

      And yes, absolutely I’ll be keeping up the blog, just talking a different kind of b*llocks than before, I guess! xx

  21. All the best English Mum. I’ve only had the pleasure of visiting Ireland the one time. I LOVED Dublin in particular. The food there was incredible. We spent some time in Cork as well as my Hubby lived there as a kid for a while. My Mum-in-law is Irish.

    But I wasn’t keen on the weather. I’m an Aussie Gal. We love our sunshine!

    Look forward to reading more…

  22. Daily Spud says:

    Oh E.M. – what a shock! I mean I know that I was only visiting Cavan by way of the blog – and I’ll certainly come and visit your blog when you’re in your new home – but still… I’ll miss the chickens!

    Still, life happens and I’m sure that another, different adventure awaits. I’ll be here to read all about it :)

    • English Mum says:

      God I know, I’m such a baby, I blubbed after they were taken away. Grabbed a last, feathery cuddle with little Elvis and then they were gone. Too right, m’dear – on to new adventures, and thanks xx

  23. june in florida says:

    Good luck EM.Its always home as long as your together.Bert?

    • English Mum says:

      Hi June, well, he can’t come with us, so the wonderful Jen is sorting out a foster home for him (and is even planning to foster him herself as a short term emergency measure!). Thanks xx

  24. Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
    oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
    ooooo dont leave me!!

  25. Maxi Cane says:

    Gay.
    That’s what that is.

  26. I second Maxi Cane. Has it really been four years?? I think I came across you when you’d been there almost 6 months. I’m so deeply pleased I did, you’re a wonderful friend to me, and to all your readers. Wish I was there to help you pack, and can’t wait to learn of your new adventures back home. Biggest hugs ever.. I’m feeling a little teary right now…..

  27. OMG!! Am shocked but hey when you gotta go you gotta go! Am sorry you never got to adopt me but hey maybe I’ll run away to England and you can then!! ;-)

    Best of luck love, looking forward to reading about your new adventures soon…….

  28. Linda says:

    Lovely post as ever Gorgeous. Please tell me you are moving to Cannock. xx

  29. Jennifer Eccles says:

    *Sob* :(

    Promise me you’ll keep up the blog once you’ve settled in….otherwise I shall have to actually, like, do some work ;)

  30. Littlemummy says:

    Good Luck. Here’s to the next chapter eh :)

  31. Kate says:

    Hi so sorry you have to leave munchie land. I’ve only met you in person a few times but I love reading your blog. My son goes to the local school and says you are a fantastic cook! And he likes his food!!! Hubby knows your hubby from the pub and was sorry he had to go. Best of luck to you and your family and hope it works out

    • English Mum says:

      Hey Kate! I’ve heard so much about you from Poppy’s Mum. Aw that’s so nice, thank you. Now you’ve commented you have to keep doing it, you know, it’s compulsory :)

  32. You’re leaving! Take it easy and mind the Irish sea. Words of optimism and hope: online shopping is So Much Better in the UK. And you get to be back in an Empire. Good luck!

  33. Bittersweet – but I’m sure you’ll be happy wherever you go, you have a gift for having fun xx

  34. Gillian says:

    OMG How do you do it? Are you like some kinda superwoman?? You move here, set up shop in Dublin, then Caven, now back to UK. I am tired even thinking about it – mind you, you are giving me hope that I can move ‘all the way’ from Dublin to Ennis in the new year!

    Best of luck with the organising, packing, moving, settling and and other ‘ings’ ahead of you. I am looking forward to new posts about new adventures.

    • English Mum says:

      Ooh, Ennis eh, Gillian? How lovely! Yes, thanks, I hate packing – that’s the worst bit as I’m rather disorganised. Keep on with adorable chocoblog – I shall still be popping in regularly! x

  35. Just discovered your blog and luv it !Best of luck with the move. Ireland’s loss and remember

    ‘Leftovers in their less visible form are called memories. Stored in the refrigerator of the mind and the cupboard of the heart’. Thomas Fuller

  36. Kate says:

    Will do. Have almost felt like a stalker just reading it and not contributing!

  37. Laurie in California says:

    Dear EM! I know you will have very fond memories and don’t forget it was from Ireland that you “jumped the pond” to visit us Yanks! Best of luck to you and I’ll keep reading. I’ll love to read about England, too! Here’s hoping that someday I’ll make it over there.

  38. Helen T says:

    Hope the move goes okay, and it is just the start of another part of life’s fabulous adventure. It just goes to show that when your home is happy, home can be anywhere.

    Lots of Love

    Hx

  39. Tara says:

    Next move consider the States, then? Just saying…

  40. patty says:

    best of luck on the move, i’ll miss the view of Ireland through your eyes, but am looking forward to learning about a new land.

  41. Brighid says:

    Wishing you & yours all the best on this new adventure! Life is an adventure, Love is laughter, Home is were you are!

  42. jennynib says:

    I can’t not post but I can’t say anything sensible either. will miss you every day, Missus.X

  43. Townygirl says:

    sigh. i want you to go and i want to come with you, but i also want you to stay. you’re my kindred spirit over here!
    Be happy my lovely, you deserve to be. Please keep blogging, or at least emailing. xxx

  44. Townygirl says:

    and having read through all the comments, i am very firmly with the jelly monster!xx

  45. alice says:

    Where in the south are you moving to?

  46. ThatGirl39 says:

    Wow! You’re moving back… and I’d only just gotten used to reading about life in Ireland! Always a late starter me! Well. I wish you tons of luck with the move and hope you are settled in soon. Just keep blogging… love this blog! And if you’re in the South then hopefully we’ll get to meet one day! xx

  47. Townygirl says:

    excellent, as long as we still have you about the place!!
    i actually choked up a bit when i read that you’re going. i wish i was. so cruel what’s happening to people isn’t it. sigh.xx

  48. McBouncy says:

    I have been lurking for several years now, having found you through Coffee Helps and I have tears in my eyes reading this. I cant believe you are going. First I lost Hails then you. She is happy with the new chapter in her life and I trust this change will be as good for you and your family. Keep blogging ;-)

    • English Mum says:

      Well hello there, McB. I feel like I already know you via Hails. Aw thanks, that’s kind. I’m sure we’ll meet the challenge head on (it’s the general standard in this household, hitting things head on, LOL!) x

  49. moon says:

    Fuckinghell 108 comments !!!
    and stop blaming me for the move

    love you x

  50. Vick says:

    Best wishes with the move, hope you’ll be as happy as you’ve been in Ireland, new starts are always a bit strange but you’ll settle in fine, and you hav all ur bloggers to keep you company if you get lonely :)

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