To my Mum on Mothers’ Day

It’s Mothers’ Day on Sunday and once again I’m on the other side of the Irish Sea.  So here, then, are a few things I’d like my Mum to know.  And if you’re a Mum too, put your feet up, have a glass of champers (any excuse, eh?) and have a great day.

So Mum, here are a few thank yous that I owe you.  I probably owe you more than a few sorrys too - for sleepless nights, teenage tantrums and other broken, borrowed or generally ruined things over the years, but hey, let’s concentrate on the positive.  Firstly, thanks for all the years of being cook, nursemaid, chauffeur and teacher.  Thanks for letting me bake cakes, make dodgy quiches and generally wreck your kitchen.  You’re an inspiration (and I still need to call you to find out how to get a runny boiled egg!).  And thanks for every lovingly prepared dinner (rice pudding..mmm!), every perfect present (and the odd dodgy Christmas jumper!), every birthday cake, every shopping trip, every shared bottle of something cold and white; for hours of listening, for every phone call, letter, postcard, email and visit, for every wonderful holiday, every day out, every game, every time you helped with homework, every kind word, every time you’ve kissed it better, every plaster, every frantic dash to A&E (both mine and my children’s!) every thoughtful deed and every prayer (even though I’m a total heathen).  Then there’s the thanks that I owe you for sometimes having to tell it like it is, for every midnight lift given, every pound spent, every puppy, kitten and hamster, every time you said yes when you wanted to say no (and every time you had to say no even though you wanted to say yes). 

And thanks for every snorty, belly laugh you’ve given, every tear you’ve shed, every hug, every time you’ve been on my side, and for being my biggest fan (and sternest critic!), most devoted reader and loyal supporter.  Thanks for setting a good example (and a sometimes hilarious bad one), for being the coolest Grandma, and the best Mum a girl could wish for.  In your own words, though none of us are perfect, we do what we can.  I love you, Ma.  Have a great Mothers’ Day x x x 

14 Responses

  1. Moon Says:

    Damn ….. being the other side of the atlantic .. I haven’t sent a card !!!!, but I will call ….

    Pretty cool Auntie as well xx

  2. englishmuminireland Says:

    Moon: Ahh, I, on the other hand, have sent… oops, nearly gave it away!! x

  3. Kieran Says:

    We sure owe them a debt of gratitude! Congrats on the new site and best of luck at the awards tomorrow.

  4. Moon Says:

    Wonderful thing having a sister who is kinda on the ball, flowers sent !!!!

  5. Don't Bug Me! Says:

    I would like to second the comment made by Moon about the pretty cool Auntie - Thanks for all you did for us while we were growing up!
    Also, Thanks Englishmum for reminding us about Mother’s Day - it nearly caught us out being so damn early. It’s not until May here, so I nearly forget every year. Still a large bunch of flowers is winging its way to England as we speak…..

  6. Mum Says:

    Ooh, had to shed a tear there…thanks darling, you are and have been worth every second, love you too and hugs to all, Mum X

  7. Englishmuminireland Says:

    Aw, we’ll make everybody cry!! xxxx

  8. englishmuminireland Says:

    Kieran: Thanks very much. Are you heading to the awards? Actually, I need to ask you a question about making ice cream without an ice cream maker. Is it possible? I made up a batch of caramel ice cream but it was rock hard!

    Bugs: Just as well you’re there to bail him out eh?! What will you guys do with yourselves once he’s evacuated your basement?! Blog looking good by the way x

  9. heth Says:

    Lovely sum up of a great mum!

  10. Moon Says:

    Well, sadly, as out family has grown up, and we have moved to all different pl=arts of the globe, me is LA, my sister in Vancouver, Englaish Mum over in Ireland, we have drifted apart as a family, but when we were younger, we lived in each others houses as a true, close knit ‘family’.. I will always love those Christmases, and times we all spent .. 7 kids all together, and a wonderful Auntie I had … so Auntie, aside of my own Mum, thank you for being there for us all ! wonderful memories, and thanks to English Mum, sadly though a website and e-mail, for getting back into my ife again xxxx

  11. Moon Says:

    and no, I don’t ever proof read what I post !!!!

  12. englishmuminireland Says:

    Feel I should elaborate here for everyone: myself and my siblings, plus our cousins (including Moon and Bugs) grew up in a pretty interchangeable family bunch, spent vast amounts of time together and seemed to have interchangeable parents a lot of the time too (thanks Auntie A!! xxx). It’s tough that we’ve all ended up so far from home, but by the wonder of the web we’re all still taking the piss out of each other, just from further away. Ahh, the wonder of the internet eh?

  13. Ali Says:

    Bloody creep looking for a fatter share of the will r ya !?

  14. englishmuminireland Says:

    Alg: Heh. You’re already the black sheep. Nope, you’re welcome to your 50p. Firm but fair, me. xx

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